Mama’s Still Got It – Share Your MILF Moments


Is it just me or is a compliment from a stranger rings more true or sincere than from your friends or husband? My husband let’s me know he thinks I’m attractive in the best way he knows how. If I have to over-explain this, you’re following the wrong blog. When it comes from a stranger with the least intention (or I naively assume not) to get in my pants, it seems authentic.

So, let’s say they are still trying to get in your pants. I got the privilege chore to go grocery shop by myself one evening and a young gentleman asked me a couple questions about my ethnicity (“oh, here goes another Asian pickup line”) but they were genuine questions. He wondered if I was Hawaiian because I “am so beautiful.” I almost didn’t believe him but I remembered I put on some mascara earlier and didn’t get puked on that day. Still, I looked like this:

Safeway MILF

Day (possibly days) old hair; messy bun; unshaven legs.

Another MILF moment occurs when I regularly walk to the local grocery store to get work lunch from their hot deli. Each time, the deli guy hands over my fried chicken delicious food with a, “Here you go, beautiful!” I’ve paced away slowly to see if he says that to the lady next in line. Too bad she orders a 6-piece meal and my hungry ass ain’t waiting longer to eavesdrop. Who knows if he says it to all the ladies but I’m on a mini-high.

On a particular day, during that same visit in the same store with same compliment from Fried Chicken guy, I walk out in the parking lot and a man sees me walk past, I flash him a still-confident smile and he shouts, “You have beautiful hair!” I shout back my giggly thank you and head back to my office with a bounce in my step. Wow, either people are really nice or their standards are lower than I expected. I looked like this that day:

Peterson's in CdA MILF

Day old hair in a sloppy pony tail.

MILF?

... and no makeup.

I don’t even think I flossed that day. So, I don’t know what the big hoopla was all about.

The common denominator was that I was not with Humnoy or Gym Hottie. I was a normal girl going about her business. I wasn’t out to impress anybody (unless he was a millionaire lookin’ for his next trophy wife). I didn’t expect compliments nor did I expect to turn any heads.

Funny thing is I feel most beautiful with Humnoy and my husband. My body allowed me to carry an almost 8-lb bowling ball for 10 months. It also allows me to be my husband’s lover (awkward visual/phrasing but it’s true!) My plain face and frizzy hair shows I am having too much fun with a toddler to worry about makeup or turning on my straightener. My confidence comes from my child and husband choosing me to be a part of their lives. Even if the attention I get is when GH wants some nookie or darting eyes from the bag boy at the store, Mama’s still got it and she doesn’t even have to flaunt it.

Homebody MILF

Makeup and hair did (and boobs) and NO compliments.

Do you have any MILF moments? When do you feel most beautiful?

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5 thoughts on “Mama’s Still Got It – Share Your MILF Moments

  1. You deserve every MILF compliment – you’re flawless and REAL! Like you, I love stranger compliments though I don’t get many. Men are really flirtatious in Texas, and I get a “You’re purrty” at least once a day. Makes my heart smile!

    • Well, it is true you really are purrty! Random compliments are unattached so saying it doesn’t have any consequence but positive!

      Thank you for the compliment! It is very sweet and thoughtful to see me that way *beaming!*

  2. I live in a small community, so it doesn’t happen often, but my partner’s friend is always flirting with me. Recently he asked me to wear a bikini and stand on his truck for the local parade this summer. I of course joked that I have nothing to show off in a bikini, but he argued that a girl in a bikini is a girl in a bikini.

    I get more compliments from women. usually when I think I look like crap, or am feeling very tired, someone will tell me how well rested I look, or how my hair looks so nice since I got bangs…

    • A girl in a bikini IS a girl in a bikini. So true! I rarely get compliments from other women, especially not from other moms, but when I do, it’s from my single girlfriends. I did get a really nice compliment from a high school guy friend, who is gay, and I think that was the best one yet!!! 😉

  3. Well, I’m a guy so maybe none of this counts, but: You are attractive, and will always be, even in old age. Not all guys expect anything from their compliments, but yeah, the thought of sex is always there. I think women care more about their looks being “dressed up” with makeup and such, but as a guy, I like it when a girl looks as natural as possible, and your natural look is beautiful. In fact, you look more beautiful with less makeup and styling, I’m sure.

    It is nice to know that women do like these random compliments. When I was younger, I said more, and they were stupid comments. I’m older now and keep my mouth shut more, but occasionally, I do say something, and it’s always to a woman who hasn’t tried to look “made-up”.

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